Beware, Ladies !!
We can sometimes commit to the wrong person .. how to look for the hidden, masked signals that he’s not devoted to you as much as you are.
Here! melon brings you a sneak-a-peek.
count down begins:
1.Hypocrisy
His words and actions won’t match...Ladies….If you are young and independent women just like me..and won’t hesitate an inch to pamper him...He might take undue advantage for this very nature of yours...
He would do exactly those things which might hurt you, even though you expressed your concerns transparently.
2.Lack of efforts:
He won’t make much efforts to make you feel special that one must do (one should, ain’t no..daahhhh)
And he certainly won’t match your efforts. He would only talk that imma do this imma do that
But inaction, he just won’t.
You might end up hurting yourself in this process.
3.Non-Committal
He says he loves you but won’t guarantee the future i.e. young ladies, he can see a future without it..and it doesn’t hurt him at all. Here don’t try to read the eyes and OH NO.....maybe things will change over the course Trust me!! It won’t.
4. Nonresolution of past :
If his past relationship hasn't worked out...and he hasn’t resolved the issue yet..and blames the other party for the hurt, where is the confidence that it won’t go south in your case.
You are not anybody’s psychiatrist, Everyone carries their baggage and you don’t have to feel the burden of that.
And If even by chance he makes you feel like you’re just a rebound.
Don’t Commit to such a person.
5. Lack of proper communication & Comprehension:
Communication is the foundation of any relationship whatsoever.
There would be a lack of proper communication and comprehension.
Communication is not only the key...but the comprehension of your emotions matters too…
Even if you boldly express your emotions and concerns ..he fails to comprehend them.
He sometimes even might deliberately choose to ignore you ( just a day ) i.e. might intentionally choose to hurt ya ( who wants that !!..\well I don’t)
You are not Antaryami (i.e. forecaster)...You can’t look into someone’s eyes and predict what’s wrong..that stuff only happens in the movie.
6.Flirt :
He flirts with other young ladies beneath the mask of friendship. To might make you feel intentionally jealous. Here’s a note :
though you don't get jealous over other bitches, instead You lose interest in Supposedly your man!!
So, Ladies If you subconsciously pick up these signs, do not choose to ignore. even if it costs you your relationship. You are young and brave, intelligent, and independent.
And Note to yourself: You Deserve everything !! By everything, I mean Everything...from a drop to the ocean.
Do not lower your standards in the name of love. I know it will hurt, but you won’t be happy either. We choose the kind of love we think we deserve.
Raise Your glasses and cheers to yourself for blooming into a badass that you are today!
let us know what you think in the comment section below.
see you next week. bye-bye!
enlightenment by Palak Chawla
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